i had dinner with an old friend tonight at this wonderful joint called firecracker. yuppie style chinese restuarnt in the mission district. it’s a great place to take a date and be proud of your heritage. anyways, at the end of the meal we got some fortune cookies and mine was a bit errie. ‘depart not from the path which fate has you assigned.’ although i have never been much of a believer in fate, in the recent years i have question my denial of such a belief system. although fate may be too strong of a […]

i am approaching one of those decisions in my life that will be remembered as one of the most glorious decision or it will be i day will long to forget. actually, being a secret romantic, it has cross my mind that i should just hop on the plane and go marry my lady friend and do it in the flair that makes a young existence remember. if i wanted to go the unconventional route, than it doesn’t get more unconventional than getting married in a foreign land, or the land of the hobbits! on a rational […]

so my lady friend calls me up at 10 am today when i am suppose to pick her up at the airport at noon. at first i thought she had landed early but the most unexpected worse news came to my suprise. she was being held at immigration. she had over stayed her visa last time and they found evidence of working in the US on a tourist visa. it wasn’t good. i was actually surprised that she was going crazy but i knew it was tough for her. she had to shoot a 2 weddings this […]

how do you know when someone is your best friend or if she is the one. to me it seems like the same type of question. it’s a very difficult question for me. not that it matters that there needs to be a best in the one in the ultimate reality. but in a conventional sense, it seems that one is confronted with these types of silly questions. i guess i am dealing with in quardary because i had to say some wonderful things of my friend of over 10 years. 10 years is only a significant […]

i’ve added another friend into the pulp. this buddy is living in france and he gives me shit all the time about how sexy i am. ha ha. actually, i give him shit all the time about how much i have a love hate relationship with the french. although i’ve been using technology to stay connected to many far away friends for the past 10 years, it’s only when my non tech savvy friends get connected that it becomes really interesting. it’s all so fun and fresh to them and i’ve taken for granted that i have […]