it’s been a long time since i’ve given anyone ‘good’ advice on relationships, esp intimate relationships when emotions run high. unfortunately, 9 out of 10 times, i am more likely to justify my own rationale than given unbais wisdom when it comes to the nature of relationships. still, i don’t think it is always necessary to operate from the point of actual details of the relationship. fundmentally, to be successful in any type of relationship, one needs to understand who we are and how well we can read others that we would like to be in the relationship with. given that premise, there’s a lot of ground work that can be covered before you need to get into the specifics of the relationships. it’s a bit of a farce for me to consider myself an expert these matters but for reasons beyond my actual direct experience with the matter, there are times when i get the tiny satisifcation that what i am saying is actually being consider. too many times it requires more converation and effort than i am capable of hese days so i prefer to keep it at a manageable level. it’s especially difficult to give advice when you’re privy to both sides of the conversation so i am even more wearily about what i should say or even want to know. still, it’s hard to stay out of it when you care those people but utlimately, i feel like people know what they should do and i am only a mirror to reflect that hidden course of action. for now, i am happy being oblivious to existence being my block of the world. if time didn’t move forward, i would be content to be in this groove for a pretty extended time. but alas, time moves all too quickly and thus i have the great itch.
