intensely casual

we were talking tonight about why our fights were so intense and the story that was offered made sense. the intensity of our love and fighting is reflective of our general passion/intensity for life. i don’t particularly consider myself intense or really that passionate (hint hint: type A personality) but in the past few years, i am beginning to suspect that i am no longer grade C personality. although we have had a considerable amount of emotional spars, generally, i don’t find them to be counter productive to the progress of the relationship. much is revealed in […]

2014-12-31T23:06:28-08:00

dtw to sfo

I turned 34 recently and without too much doubt, it was one of my best birthdays. The fact that I can’t recall anything significant in the past 10 years would be adequate in that line of reasoning. Even the celebration itself was pleasantly excellent and different from the previous years. A homemade double layer cake with 3 kids singing happy birthday to me was simply charming. Later in the night, my lover and I thoroughly enjoyed a bit of recreational substance to insure an unforgettable night. As wonderful as all the day’s activities has been, I think […]

2006-11-30T00:54:11-08:00Tags: |

the year in review

In less than 48 hours, my 33rd year will come to a close and i can’t help but be dumbfounded by the magnitude of changes that has happened this year. the year started out quietly and uneventful enough but there were seeds of change right around the turn of the 33rd. in hindsight, i had just met my lover a month prior and at that point, we were merely friends and i was still in a state of denial that we were even that. fast forward 2 or 3 months and i get a valentine’s gift from […]

2008-06-12T22:46:40-08:00Tags: |

a question of time

how long does it take for one to know if that person is the right one? the question may as well be as how long does it take to become enlightened? whether it takes a few weeks or a few years, it comes down to how well do you know yourself. obviously how well you know the other person is equally important but the fact is, if they don’t know their own nature, then your chance of knowing their nature is greatly diminished. so, it’s not surprising that more mature people fall in love in "quicker". i […]

2014-12-31T23:07:14-08:00Tags: |
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