i was chatting with a pen pal of sorts earlier today and she was telling me about her challenges of being successful yet coming home to an empty home. i told her i know the feeling all too well, now and in my early thirties as well. still, the loneliness now is less suffocating than before. i wouldn’t say it sucks, it’s there and it bites me once or twice a month but for the most part i go on my daily life feeling pretty content. more or less having a more meaningful purpose being a father […]

spending a lot of time of late on blogs, researching/being inspired by people’s adventures. i hadn’t travel much in the past 10 years but since coming back from india, i am yearning for a new chapter. unfortunately, i am enjoying my routine and lifestyle very much. don’t feel trap at some corporate job so there is less of a push. if i am living the dream already, then why disturb it thinking that the other dream is any more green? still, i know there will be a time when i will travel a lot more, especially with […]

since i’ve been thinking about goals in general for the upcoming year, i realized that given how much i am loving the to do concept, it was about time i start my life bucket list. part of me still thinks that life is not about a bunch of check marks that i need to check off to feel complete. well, at least the spiritual part of me definitely thinks that way. still, even at the end of the day/life i only did a few of those bucket list, i somehow suspect that one of the biggest to […]