haven’t had much luck with roommates this past year in terms of longevity. the last two moved out after 3-4 month stint at my place for different reasons. more recently, i tried a different approach with a roommate and invited an older chinese woman with two college ages kids. i am hoping the fact that she’s had kids of her own and that she is asian brings more understanding to my living situation. the last roommate at issues with my parenting styling and although i don’t want to put too much weigh on her opinion, it influence […]

it used to be that i couldn’t remember much of my past. it’s a very vague and foggy notion that floats in my head that serves as my memory. but now, in the past 10 years, i have a about 6000 photographic indexes of my life. trigger points that bring back those moments tat i had long lost. for some reason, with my collection of images, i feel like my life has been so much richer but i wonder how much of that is in my head. but i mustn’t discount that the past 5 years has […]