at point in my relationship with the ex, i took the time to spell out what i thought would be a healthy relationship. yes, intentions are nice but enrollment and embodiment is the work.
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we contribute financially to this relationship in a meaningful manner. they should be able to have there own account to spend accordingly as they wish and contribute to the a joint account. the joint account would be use to pay for housing, living expenses and etc.<\/p>\n
we have a career that has growth potential professionally and financially. alternatively, a career that helps people but is also meets their financial commitments. they have a strong work ethnic.<\/p>\n
we have maintain a healthy perspective on personal, family and professional issues. they understand that you have to pick your battles and accept things as they are.<\/p>\n
we would have a can do attitude and have the stamina to accomplish long term goals. <\/p>\n
we would have a healthy sense of self esteem and worth. they would not threaten by other woman in their partner’s circle of workers\/friends\/etc.<\/p>\n
we create yearly goals and develop a roadmap for the relationship in 5 and 10 years perspectives.<\/p>\n
we trust the fidelity of relationship and our commitment to being honest.<\/p>\n
we have a spiritual roadmap and actively seek to work towards it.<\/p>\n
we recognize that are at different spiritual levels and support each other when appropriate. we recognize that we may have different road maps and goals in our spiritual practice.<\/p>\n
we learn the value of saving money for our retirement and work towards being debt free. we work towards purchasing a home as a reflection of investing in our future.<\/p>\n
we recognize that we need a support system of friends within our proximity that supports our family lifestyle and spiritual practice.<\/p>\n
we recognize that we have a very limited amount of time left in our left and works towards personal, professional and spiritual goals. we will seek to eliminate the biggest distractions from our daily lives.<\/p>\n
we have goals of self improvement and work towards them on a yearly timetable.<\/p>\n
we have a support system of friends and teachers\/mentors that share their spiritual beliefs and can provide another perspective from within that spiritual belief.<\/p>\n
we value a healthy state of mind and body. we works towards in developing a habit to maintain that healthy state of being.<\/p>\n
they would have a support system of friends and teachers\/mentors that share their spiritual beliefs and can provide another perspective from within that spiritual belief.<\/p>\n
we value having boundaries and personal time to ourselves. the boundaries would extend to not working together unless it is a short term collaborative project as equals. we establish weekly times when we can have have persona time away from our partner\/family.<\/p>\n
we recognize the value of working our relationship enhancing skills and make each other accountable to it.<\/p>\n
we will raise our child to be always respectful towards us and older people.<\/p>\n
for myself:<\/p>\n
i will find a financially sustainable career that can provide me with the ability to not only meet our fundamental financial needs but provide me with the flexibly of taking a few months off per year to create personal project\/work on a spiritual practice.<\/p>\n
i will find myself a spiritual teacher that i can make myself accountable to before i am 39. I will take refuge before i am 38.<\/p>\n
i will be active in raising my child. i will make time to spend quality time with them. i will mentor them to give them the skills to cope with challenges of their adult age. i will give them a significant spiritual reference of Buddhism.<\/p>\n
i will maintain a healthy balance on work, family, and play.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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