{"id":1120,"date":"2013-05-03T08:24:17","date_gmt":"2013-05-03T16:24:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jack.orangephotography.com\/?p=1120"},"modified":"2014-01-03T08:24:56","modified_gmt":"2014-01-03T16:24:56","slug":"a-month-later","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jack.orangephotography.com\/?p=1120","title":{"rendered":"a month later"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>it&#8217;s been a while since i touched the blog. a lot his happened in the past month. so big changes in progress now. first off, i sorta kick ass on my first marathon. i ran it in 4:51 which was better than i hope for. the best thing was i didn&#8217;t feel totally wasted after it. it was tough but not actually worse then being on a bike for 8 hours. yeah, the AIDS ride a few years back set the bar for me. Don&#8217;t think i will do anything at that length any time soon but maybe a duoathonon next. <\/p>\n<p>speaking of the bike, i pull the trigger about 2 weeks ago and got a new mountain bike. getting sort of addicted again and look forward to the next big fun ride. yeah, that&#8217;s one big difference between running and mountain biking. i rarely look forward to running. it&#8217;s definitely feels out of need that i do it. well, goes without saying why i love riding on the trail. also, it&#8217;s the first time in a long time that i felt that i was doing some &#8216;recreational&#8217; on a &#8216;regular&#8217; basis. we will see how long i can keep mountain biking in my schedule but it&#8217;s been nice riding with these meet up groups for sure. it&#8217;s not riding the same as when i was in early 30s but ironically i feel more in shape these days with all the running and now riding. <\/p>\n<p>my theme this year of finding some new groups to be a part of also got some traction. i finally decided to join vistage after evaluating a couple of options. feel like i am going back to &#8216;school&#8217; in some way because i am paying &#8216;big&#8217; money for education\/development. yeah, it&#8217;s so much cheaper than going to an MBA program but i am hoping to get quite a bit out of this group! <\/p>\n<p>i started volunteering this week as well at the guna foundation. i must admit it was nice being around fellow Buddhist and being immerse in heavily decorated buddhist environment! there&#8217;s no doubt that just being around people\/images of buddhism helps me remember what i need to really shift my focus to. it&#8217;s so easy to get pulled into gravity of non aware busyness. <\/p>\n<p>lastly, i was in houston for a week and went on a &#8216;vacation&#8217; with my dad and brother. i think it was our first family vacation as adults. although we didn&#8217;t go anywhere particularly interesting it was still nice conceptually to have uma be a part of it all. she definitely help bring us all together. my dad and brother adore her and it&#8217;s nice to see my own family soak in the wonderfulness of her. as i was working on uma&#8217;s book this month, i was looking over last year&#8217;s photos and it look like we didn&#8217;t really have a birthday party her last year. looking over the last several years of photos trigger the emotional roller coaster of marriage. naturally a part of me still want to have that family life but for the emotional price was more than i could bear. i know a part of me is trying too hard to &#8216;date&#8217; people via these meet ups and online dating scene. i suspect at some point, i will just give up the effort and&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>it&#8217;s been a while since i touched the blog. a lot his happened in the past month. so big changes in progress now. first off, i sorta kick ass on my first marathon. i ran it in 4:51 which was better than i hope for. the best thing was i didn&#8217;t feel totally wasted after it. it was tough but not actually worse then being on a bike for 8 hours. yeah, the AIDS ride a few years back set the bar for me. 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