so she finally decided to leave the country. to call it quits because it’s been such a long struggle to find her independence. no doubt it’s been difficult but it was never meant to be easy. i am sure it’s going to be easier going back to the motherland with friends and family but at what cost to character the development? i think she’s had it too easy for most of her life. confronted with the realities of young adult life, identities and all that stuff that can drive normal people whacky and i can understand why she would call it quits. it deeply saddens me to have to let her spirit go but convincing her to stay would make her survival my responsiblity. something that i can’t take lightly. it’s a difficult line to walk…to support someone without creating that dependence. enough of this misery. time for a hit.